The marriage survey

1. When is your “engagement” anniversary:
September 30, 2006

2. When is your “marriage” anniversary:
May 19, 2007

3. How long have you known your spouse:
23 years

4. How long did you date/court before you were engaged:
4 and a half years

5. Where did you meet your spouse for the first time?
This is tricky since our families were friends when we were born...so I would say we met when Wes was born since I am older than him!

6. What is your spouse’s full name:
Wesley David High

7. Do you have any children:
Cammers Bammers :)

8. How many – boys/girls:
Just 1 boy

9. Do you have any house pets:
Yes, Sassy

10. Do you own a house or rent:
Own

11. Do you live in the country or town/city:
City

12. What is one of your favorite activities together:

We love to just be together. Whether it is laying in bed just chatting, or shopping at Costco, we love to just be with our little family.

13. Do you have a favorite vacation spot:
San Diego

14. When did you first kiss?
Aww man, I don't know the date...we were 16 and it was in my parents drive way.

15. What church do you attend?
A great one! The one I grew up in

16. Is this the church you were married in:
Yes! And Wesley's Grandpa married us :)

17. What town is your current address at:
Phoenix

18. Do you work or stay at home:
Doing both right now, but I would prefer to stay home and raise our babies

19. Where did you go on your honeymoon:
San Diego

20.What was the funniest gift you gave when dating?
Wes bought me a little waterfall thing that played rain forest noises...I hated that thing, it was so loud I finally unplugged it and put it in the hallway so I wouldn't have to listen to it. Haha! He is still mad that I didn't like it.

21.How long have you been together?
Almost 8 years

22. How long did you know each other before you started dating?
15 years
 
23. Who asked who out?
Well after he kissed me, I said, so am I your girlfriend? He said, yes. Then I responded with, Um well you never asked me to be your girlfriend!! So then he asked.

24. How old are each of you?
We are both 23.

25.Where do each of you go to school?
I don't go to school, Wes is in medical school.

26. Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Wes is in medical school so he is really busy all the time. When he is not at school he is still studying, so it makes our time together really valuable. I wouldn't say it is really hard, it just makes us work hard at making time for each other.
 
27. Did you go to the same school?
Same elementary school and high school. Different colleges.
 
28. Are you from the same home town?
Yes!

29. Who is smarter?
He is in medical school and I am a Mom...you tell me!

30. Who is more sensitive?
ME! Obviously...I am a girl, and I am a Mom.

31.Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Chipotle, or where ever we have a coupon.

32. Where is the farthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Well we didn't travel together to get there...but Wesley's family lived in England, and when I was 12 my family traveled over to England to stay with them and visit. Technically we weren't a couple when we were there, in fact, we didn't even like each other then.
 
33.Who has the craziest exes?
Wes doesn't have any, and I only have 1 and he was never crazy, and we only dated a month.

34. Who has the worse temper?
Neither of us have tempers, but I tend to overreact more than him.

35. Who does the cooking?
I do. Wes usually cleans everything up though :)

36. Who is more social?
Definitely me!
 
37. Who is the neat-freak?
Me! I am a total neat freak. Wes likes things tidy, but not like me.

38. Who is more stubborn?
We both are in our own ways.

39. Who hogs the bed?
Me, especially when I was pregnant. Although sometimes he steals the covers and then I wake up freezing.

40. Who wakes up earlier?
I do, since Camden is my alarm clock.

41. Where was your first date?
Homecoming at our high school. Our parents drove us there :) Haha!

42.Who had more boyfriends/girlfriends?
Me- But only 1

43. Do you get flowers often?
Just got some 3 days ago, thanks schmooks!

44. How do you spend the holidays?
With both families, sometimes we combine with both our families and that makes things easier.

45. Who is more jealous?
I would say me, although I am not really very jealous. He is in medical school so he has patients of every kind, I am not really jealous, just really curious about the patients he works with.

46. How long did it take to get serious?
We were 15, so it took a few years! Haha

47. Who eats more?
I eat more frequently throughout the day, he eats more volume at one sitting.

48. Who does the laundry
I always wash it, but he helps me put it away a lot of times.

49. Who’s better with the computer?
We are both pretty good.

50. Leave a piece of advice for the other couples.
Don't take life to seriously. Laugh about the little things and just enjoy your husband or wife. Respect your husband, love your wife, and make them feel special. Stay intimate, always date, and have lots of babies! Let your husband lead you, and always pray together as a couple. Share your dreams and wishes, and always encourage each other to achieve those things.